If you’ve ever wondered why your child can calm down at school but completely falls apart at home — or why they seem to regulate better around certain people — co-regulation is the answer. It’s one of the most important concepts in nervous system parenting. And once you understand it, a lot of things that …
If you’ve tried every parenting strategy in the book and nothing sticks — this might be why. Most behaviour strategies are designed for behaviour. Consequence charts, reward systems, logical outcomes. These tools assume the child’s thinking brain is online and available. When big feelings are involved, it often isn’t. Big feelings are not a behaviour …